If you scour the internet and youtube videos like myself, you've probably ran into the topics of 'Hypergamy' and 'Femininity' at least once. As a black woman (or any woman of color), you were or are probably scratching your head like 'WTH is hypergamy and what is the big deal about being 'feminine'? I realized that question in and of itself is problematic and I will do my best to articulate why. I know this topic is not ... VIEW POST